I WANT to experience it again…

I have made a lot of trips to a lot of different places, and I have truly enjoyed every single moment of it. The sight of a new place, be it nature’s own gift or man made marvel, certainly thrills me more than anything else in this world. Not being mean of just mentioning about this experience alone, but something made me want to write about this one. One of my most recent vacation spot was “Maui – Hawaii”. There is a lot to say about the place in depth, but above all I am writing this to share my experience of an act I did there.

Looking back a little bit… I am a person who was or I’d call is very scared that I will sink in water, even in a 5’ pool. The master who taught me swimming will “acknowledge” this fact. I got the courage to learn swimming half a decade back. The master put his heart and soul to teach me the sport, at the risk of his own life!! yes, you are right, I have tried sinking him into water as well in the pool!! Finally I managed to learn it, but with NO confidence. A couple of years passed, and I lost a little bit of touch with swimming, and last summer wanted to do a crash course again, along with my husband this time! So did the course again, and if you think I got confidence now, you ‘re terribly wrong. Everyone said I swim so well, but I have this mind block in me I guess. Now I can swim – Yes, but confidence is what is still lacking.

Coming back to the story, Am sure everyone would have come across the word “snorkeling”. If not all about the word is in here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Snorkeling

Yes I did this in Maui....And I sincerely hope I would be able to do it again if not in Hawaii, anywhere else in the world. Here goes my experience…
We left from the resort one day before sunrise, little before 6 AM, for a half day cruise, and a snorkeling expedition. I was all scared as well as excited inside; I’d heard from my friends that it has been one of their best experiences and all stories affiliated to their experiences! But only I knew how scared I was inside,you know, swimming in 7’ pool was a major achievement for me, and I was sure I do not have the guts to even dream of anything more than that. But still wanted to try snorkeling. Now we board the boat, have a nice hearty breakfast, and then cruise away from the harbor, almost to the middle of the OCEAN, there I am enjoying the awesome nature, to hearts content, and suddenly truth sinks!

The boat is anchored, and everyone gets ready with the snorkeling gears. Now I am damn scared to do this, my husband fully encouraging me, I get into the ocean behind him! 5 minutes passed with me struggling to adjust to the cold water (the coldest I’ve ever sensed) and the waves and the gear, too much to handle I thought. And then the first time I put my head into the PACIFIC and saw below, WHAAAAAA….. IT WAS AN UNFORGETTABLE MOMENT IN MY LIFE!

An entirely different world inside the ocean, the colors inside, the ground of the ocean, OH MY…the fishes running here and there, was a truly awesome experience. I just did not care what was happening outside, for the next may be 5 minutes. Then had to put my head out due to complications with the goggles. I got out of the water adjusted it, and fought a little with the waves, and then I was all comfortable with a floating pad, my lack of confidence did not leave me, so had it in case I sink u know! Again put my head down to explore a little more, and after say 20-25 mins, I had lost my energy, so got into the boat, and then jumped in again after 10 mins. This time, I was more experienced, went some more distance and I could not believe my eyes as to what I was seeing. Every single moment was a marvel. I though how nice it would be If I could live in there for some days, seeing those wonderful tiny colorful fishes swim with so much of grace. The water was crystal clear, the floor of the ocean was some 100’ below, but still could see it, no dirt, and no pollution. It was so clean and clear. After staying in there for another 20-25 mins, I got out with no mind to do so, but I’d lost all my strength in the waves which was becoming bigger and bigger. I was so glad that I did it finally and I sat there with my legs still in water for 5 more minutes, not able to believe what I had gone through with a big smile and then everyone had to get in, and we had to depart from that place. I was dumbstruck for a couple of minutes with the experience I’d had!

Now,those of you who have gone through this experience, am sure will want to do it again in life, just the way I want to. But those of you who have not yet tried this, Please do, you will certainly enjoy. It is a different world inside the ocean. Not to forget 70% of the earth is that, so you certainly want to know how it looks, I promise you will not repent.

This sure is something that I want to repeat in life. Looks like my confidence level has gone up a considerable amount, I wholeheartedly hope it is true and that my courage stays as part of me forever but I really cannot make out until I jump into the pool again:-):-)

I am tagged...(First time)

Thanks Nancy for tagging me:-)
Here goes the longgggg list!
Have fun!

ABOUT U:
1. What's your name→ Durga
2. Nicknames→ not really any now.
4. Zodiac sign → Aries
5. Male or female or transgendered → Female
6. Elementary→ Heeeee.....St.Joseph’s school Trichy
7. Schools → St. Johns Vestry, St.Josephs A.I.G.H.S.S, Vailankanni Raj, Trichy
8. Colleges → Thiagarajar college of engineering, Madurai
9. Height → 5'2”
10. Hair color → Black
11. Long or short → not too long
12. Do you have a crush on someone? → I guess my husband still..
13: Ever been in love? Of course lots, whats life without love!
14. Piercings → ears pierced, love earrings!
15. Tattoos → Nope!
16. Righty or lefty → Right mostly, but left on and off when cooking...

FIRSTS :
17. First piercing → Ears, When I was 1.
18. First best friends →Anu & Sharmila
19. First sport you joined→ May be in school sports day.
20. First pet → Not had one at home, but neighbors yes.21. First vacation → to my knowledge Dad’s village
22. First concert → hahah, no idea.
23. First crush → When in school I guess.
24. Eating → anytime I feel like;-)
25. Drinking → Not getting a liking to it still.
26. I'm about to → clean up my home…it’s hightime I did it
27. Listening to → Hits of ARR

LASTS:
28. Last beverage → Coffee!
29. Last phone call → last night to a friend of mine
30. Last text message → Not a fan of it!
31. Last song you listened to → Jodha akbar!
32. Last time you cried → when I walked out of my office last week!

HAVE YOU EVER:
33. Dated someone twice → Nope
34. Been cheated on? → Yes!
35. Kissed someone & regretted it? → I guess Yes will be true!
36. Lost someone special? → MY MOM
37. Been depressed?→ Oh Yes last questions answer will tell you
38. Been drunk and threw up? → Nope

HAVE YOU:
39. Made new friends → Yes lots of late
40. Fallen out of love → Not really
41. Laughed until you cried → N number of times
42. Met someone who changed you → No
43. Found out who your true friends were → I feel it’s a very tought thing to do!
44. Found out someone was talking about you → Yes, I feel real bad
45. Kissed anyone on your friend's list → Yes
46. Made the first Move → Yes, quite a lot of times.
47. Do you have any pets → Not yet!
48. Do you want to change your name → Not at all
49. What did you do for your last birthday → cut 3 cakes, got a precious gift, had fun time with friends
50. What time did you wake up today – 07.00 AM
51. What were you doing at midnight last night→ Was browsing about my next vacation spot!
52. Name something you CANNOT wait for → meeting my nephews and dad in a months time.
53. Last time you saw your father → June 2007!
54. What is the one thing you wish you could change about your life → Become more organized
55. Most visited webpage → My public photo page in flickr, and lot of blog pages I read daily56.Bribed someone? → Nope
57.Played with dolphins? → Yes in sea world

YOUR FUTURE :
58. Want kids? → Yes for sure
59. Want to get married ? → haha, should ask my husband
60. Careers in mind? → One ond only architecture
61. Settling in a Big Villa? → If I get a chance, yes
62. Day or night? → Day
63. What day is tomorrow? → Tuesday.
64. Challenges? → Love them.
65. Drive with windows up or down? → up
66. Scared of Death? → Yes.
67. Cook or Clean? → both simultaneously
68. Lips or eyes → I make up both lips and eyes
69. Hugs or kisses → hugs.
70. Shorter or taller → Taller…am shortL
71. Older or Younger → Younger.
72. Romantic or spontaneous → Spontaneous.
73. Nice stomach or nice arms → I’ll go with nice stomach
74. Sensitive or loud → mmmm…both
75. Hook-up or relationship → means?
77. Trouble maker or hesitant → of course trouble maker;-).

HAVE YOU EVER :
78. Kissed a stranger → Nope
79. Lost glasses/contacts → lost my sun glasses:-(
80. Found money on the road → Yes lot of times.
81. Sex on first date → No wayssss
82. Broken someone's heart → never to my consciousness
83. Had your own heart broken → nope
84. Held a snake? → oh no ways.
85. Been arrested → Nope..
86. Turned someone down → Yes
87. Cried when someone died → YES buckets
88. Liked a friend that is a girl/boy? → Yes

DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
89. Yourself → yes I do
90. Miracles → Happens sometimes
91. Love at first sight → Nope
92. Heaven → Full of flowers and smoke
93. Santa Clause → Love santa
94. Peace in this lifetime → I just hope it’s peace everywhere
95. Kissing on the first date? → nope
96. Angels → white dress with wings….sometime I do beleive
97. Is there one person you want to be with right now? → yes
98. Had more than one boyfriend/girlfriend at one time in the past? → nope…
99. You will die Young → may be who knows…
100. You will end with the one you love and learn to love the one you are with – second one!

CAN THIS BE TRUE??

Not sure, how many of you all have come across this phrase “Recession Resistant”. Today was the first time I heard this. I was listening to the radio today morning as I was driving, and there was this advertisement for a franchise business that we could take up that would be Recession Resistant.

Gosh!!! For the past 4 months the words that has been very common is Recession, crisis & economy. What truly happened that it has come to this stage is a mystery. But it is true common man is genuinely affected. At least 3-4 people known to me have been laid off from work, and are in deep trouble. What could have gone wrong in their lives?? Losing a job is not a good feel, you become unstable, thoughts wander, lot of criticism happens, and lots more to go through. Do they have any control…No, it is mere misfortune.

All the fields of profession have been badly infected… real estate, IT, architecture, retail, construction, etc. The government has no enough money neither does people to come out of this quickly. When will those good old busy days come back!

Can this be a solution? Can these “recession resistant” options be an outlet for the affected? Can there be something that is recession resistant amidst this crisis? It is not as simple as water resistant stuff or termite resistant stuff to take it up and test it. Are these marketing agencies making use of the bad situation to their own benefit? Will affected people take it up and succeed (or add to their sufferance)?

How well it will be if each of the affected ones has a Recession Resistant option outlet!!

I Hope and pray for the same and Wish all the people affected a speedy recovery and all the rest to play it safe and have handy “recession resistant” solutions (if at all there are any)!!

The SPORT…

Right from my childhood, I have not been a very big fan of any sport. I used to watch cricket, on and off, only One day matches, as I cannot sit through an entire test match or series, but I am always curious to know the results. Apart from this Olympics, tennis, gymnastics and car racings have always inspired me. But I have never had the passion to keep a track of any of these sports.

Not too long ago, my interest factor changed. I started watching Tennis, regularly, keeping track of everything happening in the sport, following them closely, and finally fell in love with the sport. Needless to say, I am so very much amazed at the energy level every single player has, in every single shot. But for tennis, I am slowly and steadily getting pulled into watching basketball, American Football, and soccer also. Thanks to my better half, a sports fanatic, for marketing these into my life!

I started writing this blog, minutes after I finished watching the Australian open 2009. Oh Man….. I woke up at 3.30 AM to experience the live telecast of the finals past two days (not to forget, it’s Saturday morning and Sunday morning), on a usual day, I can call this time midnight!!!

The women’s finals did not even last for an hour, it was so pre written that Serena wins it. Not a thrilling match, so one sided. The men’s finals, I have no words to explain this experience. Two BIGTIME players, hitting every single ball they face, with energy, determination, dream, hope, rage, etc..Nadal, No. 1 in the world today, and Federer, No.1 till a few months back, but King of this sport. I still am a very big fan of Roger, and I like Rafael too very much, for all the shots he plays. And first time in history a Spaniard won the Aussie open, such a proud moment. But I sincerely wanted Roger to take this and come in par with Pete Sampras's records. Though it did not happen, it sure was a treat to my eyes, for 4 full hours, following them closely, getting disappointed, cheering, getting emotional, and all sorts of mixed things. Wow…what a match it was…
And another proud moment for India too, Sania and Bhupathi won the mixed doubles. I am so happy!!

I just hope and pray that I get to go for a grand slam in person, to get the feel of it, to be a part of it, and keep it in my memories forever in life!

I am so glad I fell for this sport in particular. Now, be it any sport, the amount of time and dedication, and practice and energy spent by every sing player, is no match to any word. They bring so much of pride to their country, to their family, to their fans. They sure are very inspirational in so many ways.

Long live Sports!!

Memories...

Some sweet memories...on my fridge..inspired by Preethi's blog.

I love travelling and have this habit of collecting souveniers ....mostly magnets as this is one of a good innovation and easy to maintain. Each magnet on my fridge has stories, sweet memories, small incidents, and lots hidden in them. Whenever i see it, it takes me back to those places, small wonders of this world.

This is the story my fridge tells...

Yes...I fell for it FINALLY!

This is very long back, more than a decade now. The first time I heard the word “computer”. Was in high school, when there was this big argument in our house, as to what group of subjects that my sister should take up for her higher secondary classes. Before that, yes, I have heard this word on and off, but have never got a desire to know what it is all about.

So all this discussion happens, and finally everyone at home came to one point where my sister would be taking computers as one of the 4 main subjects. That was when this thing (then) “computers” got into our families lives. And days passed by, my sister used to come home and tell us about how she sat in a computer lab, and did programming. I was still no where near it.

Then one day, my dad decides on purchasing a computer for his office use. (Office was very much accessible to home). Everyone in the office and home are very excited about this. And still I don’t bother (reason, I don’t know what it is and no interest to know too). I was in my 10th Standard. Days go by, busy with studies, exams and all phobias (not for me, but for my mom). Finally I get a big summer break and here comes the “thing” “computer” into my life. And guess what the first thing I learn in that is to of course switch it on, and then, start a game “Dave” (my mentor – my sister, already in college, as a computer engineereing student). I play day in and day out; refusing to allow my dad’s staff to work on it (you know I am the boss’s daughter, so no one asks me to get off). My dad and mom given up on me (not really, the real reason being no school work, no “must do” studies). I gradually improve, 6-7 levels n Dave, hocus pocus, bricks. Etc. So 3 months – Computer becomes my world.
And then school again, guess what, I take computers as one of the main subject, but not that I had fallen for it (I still don’t know what this box is), but I am fascinated by the thought of playing games all by myself hours together. All is well, and my sister purchases a new computer at home. Her room is all done, insulated for heat protection. I loved going to that room – one, to play games, and two, it’s air-conditionedJ.In school, I get to go to the computer lab, do programming, but still lots of question marks about this box. But then I knew for sure, I cannot do this programming stuff forever in life. (As my today’s profession was always my passion from high school). School life is DONE, and computers come into my life again (games, games and more games). And guess what I get out of out in Computers in 12th standard board exams JJ (Those who learnt computers with heart and soul and did not get centum – Please do not curse me)

Then, I go on to make my passion and dreams come true. I thought no more “computers” in my life. My life is all about pencil and pen and scales and colors I thought. And then 2 years passed, and I came to know of a thing called AutoCAD (software to create architectural drawings) in Computer during yet another summer break. Now I am mighty thrilled. I go on to venture what it is all about, and guess what I fell for it. I wanted to know more now, which I did. Get back to college again and go on to make my dream come true. By then I am introduced to “internet” (to be very honest did not give a damn about that word too). But slowly started to get stuff from the net for assignments, projects, etc.

Finally College life is DONE, and by then I had AutoCAD at home. By then Computers was more a tool for me to produce fast drawings other than to play! And we get internet at home. Wow, what all happens with that, songs, chat with friends, letters, and of course more games!

And then go on to start my career, use AutoCAD to the fullest extent possible (sadly, no pencils, pens, scales), but enjoying the tool. By now Computers means only AutoCAD for me, though I am exposed to lot of other things that I can do with it.

I move on, and then guess what; I get married to a Computer professional as irony would have it, who tells me the power of internet and computers! I really do not give a thoughtful ear about it (yet another time in my life). Google gets introduced to me, but I say its one phone call away to find out things!

Life moves on, I happen to step my feet on the most developed country of the world, and then Life changed for me! Thoughts changed, guess what internet and GOOGLE becomes a part of my world, no, no, become my world! I start using Google for anything and everything, Google maps, Google search, Google’s Gmail, Google’s orkut. Life started revolving around Google. I know how to make rasam, but still Google to find out other ways of making it. Going to a store...Google. Going on a trip… google. Learning to play the piano… google. Movies… google, want to cook… Google. Stuck at work…Google. Google has become the most important part of my life. I may very well call, My boy friend is google now! I cannot be without mentioning that I got my present job as a result of me posting my resume on the web world!

This is reality. What was once a damn thing for me has become an inseparable part of my mind today! I sincerely appreciate the invention; it sure is a wonder (at least to my own eyes, as I don’t know the technology involved). I can talk to all my friends on a daily note, keep in touch with all my near and dear ones, write what I think like this and share with the world, get in touch with old friends, clear my doubts, lots of other things, plus my childhood passion….increased two folds…Play lots of games!

This moment, I sincerely appreciate Charles Babbage, and internet, and of course GOOGLE and all the mind and soul working day in and out to make our life so well connected and hassle free! Hats off!

LISTEN TO THE MUSIC….

Too many people (including me) put off something that brings them joy just because they haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know it was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine, though I've always tried to be a little flexible.
How many of us will eat at home because their near and dear ones didn't suggest going out to dinner until after something had been thawed? Does the word "refrigeration" mean nothing to us? How often have kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you watched TV.

Because we cram so much into our lives, we tend to schedule our headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves when all the conditions are perfect.

I have heard lot of people say we’ll go back and visit the grandparents when we get our little one toilet-trained. We’ll entertain, when we replace the living-room carpet. We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get the kids out of college.

Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer.
One morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a litany of "I'm going to," "I plan on" and "Someday, when things are settled down a bit."

There are some people who are open to adventure and available for trips. They keep an open mind on new ideas. Their enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with them for five minutes, and you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Roller blades and skip an elevator for a bungee cord.

Now...go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to......not something on your SHOULD DO list. If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say?

Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight or gazed at the sun into the fading night? Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round or listened to the rain lapping on the ground?
Do you run through each day on the fly? When you ask "How are you?" Do you hear the reply? When the day is done, do you lie in your bed with the next hundred chores running through your head?
Ever told your child, we’ll do it tomorrow And in your haste, not see his sorrow? Ever lost touch? Let a good friendship die? Just call to say "Hi"?
You'd better slow down. Don't dance so fast. Time is short. The music won't last. When you run so fast to get somewhere, you miss half the fun of getting there. When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like an unopened gift....Thrown away.

Life is not a race. Take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over.